Separate
Each account is read on its own terms first.
Both sides.
Move ahead.
Bring both sides. Get a clear, private recommendation you can both act on.
Open a case
No public posts. No scorekeeping.
Put the disagreement here.
Four focused prompts. One shared ruling.
Reading both accounts.
This can take up to a minute. Keep this page open while the ruling is prepared and emailed.
Your resolution is in motion.
How the ruling gets built.
No winner board. No public verdict. Just a practical way forward.
Compare
Shared facts, conflicts, and tradeoffs are mapped.
Resolve
Both people receive the same reasoning and next step.